You Asked: Single Motherhood and Loneliness

One single mom writes:  “I’ve been a single mom for almost 9 years and it’s lonely.  I’m used to doing it all by myself as I don’t get child support. Just lonely . . .”  Every single mom on the planet can relate to feelings of loneliness. Am I right? Intimate bonds with other people… Continue reading You Asked: Single Motherhood and Loneliness

You asked: What part did I play in the breakup of my marriage?

One single mom I spoke with last week asked me to clarify statements I’d made in the past about the “part” we play in the breakup of our marriage:  “I never knew anything was even going on. I was a good wife. But I know I’m not perfect. What part did I play?”  Sometimes people… Continue reading You asked: What part did I play in the breakup of my marriage?

You asked: Is it normal to want to find someone new ASAP?

One single mom asked:  “Is it normal to want to find someone new ASAP? I see lots of ladies say they are content to be single forever. I definitely don’t feel this way.”  When posed with the possibility of moving on from our past and into a new marriage in our future, many single moms… Continue reading You asked: Is it normal to want to find someone new ASAP?

You Asked: How do I Learn to Trust My Own Judgment Again? 

One single mom asked:  “How do I learn to trust my own judgment? It is a very scary prospect, I have no idea where I will live, what job I should be looking for, how I will manage financially, whether I will be alone for the rest of my life, and I can’t actually decide what to make… Continue reading You Asked: How do I Learn to Trust My Own Judgment Again?